Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Best Selling Author , writes… …
It’s usually recommended to make physical room for a new relationship to show up in your life. To put it another way, clear out a closet, and some drawers. Allow your space for living to be conducive for coupling. And while that’s important, it’s of even greater importance to create space for your emotions.
Think of letting go as freeing yourself from your past. Think of emotional release and releasing limiting habits of thought about relationships as forgiving. You are making energetic space for the wonderful, new, healthy, and perfect relationship to step into.
I can already tell some of you at this moment saying, “Yeah but, I do not think he truly needs to be let go for his behavior. It was in the wrong and that’s simply that!” Watch the energy you’re allowing to be siphoned off from your power. This is a trickle in your energy field and over time, it will deplete you, if it hasn’t already. Also, that eventual energy depletion prevents you from having all of your power focused in this present moment. When you do not retain your power in the moment, do you think you are going to be an amazing, deliberate creator? It makes it that much harder. Relationship readiness is of utmost importance when attempting to manifest a new relationship. Finding out the limits in your psyche is the first step to true relationship cohesiveness.
Take your real power back by releasing and letting go of your history, of self-judging that weigh you down, muss up your energy field and halt you from going forward to having the life you’ve always wanted to live. Empowering yourself with the Law of Attraction is amazingly helpful for Relationship Attraction, and it’s not hard to understand.
I’ve noticed that the topic of forgiving can be a heavy one. I’m not talking about the type of forgiveness where we are excusing another person’s unacceptable actions. It is essential to have healthy boundaries in place for you. To know how you feel concerning who you desire in your life and those who you do not. How you desire to spend your time and with whom. It is essential to know what works for you and what doesn’t. The method in which you spend your time and energy and with what people, what feels right and what feels like an energy drain.
Being able to forgive isn’t a moral position. It isn’t about the correctness of any one thing. Forgiveness is letting go of those pains, slights, abuses, bitterness, grudges, and creating space for what you DO want to show up. Morality has little to do with forgiving.
Do your very best at evaporating the past by releasing and forgiving yourself and others. This’ll give you a clean canvas on which to manifest your ideal loving relationship.
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