Deciding if the new guy in your life – who has set your heart on fire and puts your head in the clouds every time he calls – is truly your soulmate and not just a lusty indulgence, can be extraordinarily difficult to determin.

Often in the first throes of finding love, we feel overcome with the excitement that comes from being with someone new.

Finding love, separating love and lust in the early days is near impossible . To find the answer, you need to spend a lot more time with each other.

So in order to help our readers to find out ‘how to know if he is my Soulmate’, we have put together some practical advice to help you through this process.

1. You have defined this man in your mind before you have met him.

2. Deep down, you know he’s the guy. There are no doubts.

3. You are friends as well as passionate lovers. You both have to feel a powerful emotional and physical attraction for each other. For a true soul mate relationship to occur, one cannot exist without the other.

4. Within the relationship, you have stayed 100% true to yourself. If you alter the essential core of your being just to please the man you think is your soulmate, think again: he’s not the right guy for you. If you’ve gave up on your goals and dreams, or made enormous sacrifices to keep him happy, he isn’t your soul mate. It’s really just that simple.

5. He completely understands and supports those things in life that are the most meaningful to you, particularly your innermost wishes and desires.

6. Both of you are equally and deeply devoted to each other and your relationship, and each of you want the other’s dreams to come true.

7. You trust this man and you are both loyal to one another.

8. The benefits of being with him far outweigh the costs.

9. Nothing could make you happier than being in love with this man.

10. You cannot imagine being away from this man for long periods.

11. You have a strong intuition that you are with the right man. You have eyes only for this man. If you keep thinking about another men, then this guy is not your soulmate. If it begins to occur to you that you are settling for less than you deserve, you’re probably right. That’s exactly what you’re doing. Don’t ever settle for less!

12. You make magic together as a team. He supports your goals and dreams as much as you do his.

13. Your soul journeys seem to complement each other

14. You share the same values and ideals in life, but respect your differences.

15.You don’t have any secrets from each other; in fact, you can’t wait to tell each other everything.

16. There are no unanswered questions about what this man is about. You have a good idea that you know the real him.

17. In all ways and at all times, you feel alive when you’re with him. When he’s near, you have an inner sense of peace and confidence. There is no anxiety or insecurity that he may leave you for someone else. You don’t feel anxious when he goes out, fearing that he’s on the prowl for a new partner. You do not feel threatened by other women.

18. There is no sense of urgency – you do not feel that you need to sleep with him or do anything else in order to keep him.

19. You feel alive and energized with him.

20. Being with him is inspirational to you, and you want to be a better person as a result.

21. Together, you are a amazing team. Together, you can do anything. Side by side, you can accomplish anything you set your minds to.

22. You do not need him to validate you or make you feel complete.

23. Time is an important factor in determining whether a man is your soulmate. One advantage of time is that it gives you more experiences to share. In our experience, it takes three to six months to determine if the man in your life has soulmate potential. Another way to know if he’s the one is to see his reactions in a variety of situations.

Finding love is a magical journey that should happen to everyone. If your deepest desire is to live a fulfilling, joyful life, use these suggestions to search and find your soul mate.